Romeo....I am sorry but I disagree with the others about sickness...do ask. If you were sick, and couldn't care for DD, wouldn't you want your stbxh to help? I know, I know they divorced us, so they shouldn't get the perks of our help. BUt it does affect DD...she could get sick. Also, I am a high road, live by the golden rule if you can kind of gal. Not to martyrdom but just to common sense level.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
