I've been wanting to post this to you for awhile now. But the last couple of days seem like this is a good time. Your S is way too young to be left alone to talk to his dad. You need to know what he's saying so you can discuss with him any feelings that he's having about this gigantic mess. You've been reeling from everything but with IC you're doing so much better. You need to find your inner mama bear now!
You need to call your IC first thing in the am and get a referral for your son. He needs some help sorting this out. Your H and the whore have been pushing their new happy family in his face because they need validation. But, your S can't handle it and I'm sure dear old dad is telling him that he's wrong for any feelings he's having. Meanwhile, your H is blaming you for anything that S is saying and you have no idea because you haven't been listening.
You may need to pull way back on vistation for awhile so your S can process all the events(with the C approval of course). I think it was totally inappropriate for your H to take him to the ultrasound. Your S is obviously hurting and your H is not helping.
Email H and let him know that you are concerned about what you heard. Ask if he has said anything else like this. Let him know that you will be taking him to C asap. You will do this, NOT H. That is very important.
Mystic, you are doing so much better. You are strong enough to handle this. Be strong for your S. Mama Bear, GRRRR!
