When you say you're getting ready to refi the house, is it so you can take out the equity or lower the payments? If it's the former didn't she get half of the equity too?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
