Hindsight - What Would You Have Done Differently?

[newmama]

Allen, since our S was a newborn, and I was nursing,I was at home at the same time he was there for all but one visit. Then I gradually decreased the amount of time I was present at the house during his visits. I think I started being less "present" around November...would have to go back and re-read.


But I remember thinking all along, in the back of my mind, that there probably isn't much we can do if the WAS really wants to be with the OP.

I am now at peace because I can think of him as being emotionally unstable since he is capable for filing for D while telling me he will always have doubts. Who does that? Who TELLS the spouse that???