I think your birthday plans sound wonderful! Think of it this way...your parents aren't going to be around forever and this is wonderful opportunity to spend some time with your Mom...when/if your H comes out of his stupor, you can spend the rest of your birthday's with him!
It wasn't that long ago was it that you guys were flooding and now it is dry? If it is not one thing it is another!
You have got to be one of the strongest people I know! God Bless!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing