But I have only been at this a month. It will take longer to get TRUE detachment, and to see if my changes FOR ME will start to affect her.

1 month for every year married Allan and MWD says. Allen seems to advocate strong interference running against other men in order to keep a clear playing field so she has TRUE time to heal and be affected by anything.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed