Antonia tell both these guys to ignore his emails and that if they want to support you they will have NOTHING to do with him
This will make your H VERY NERVOUS that they won't face him or interact with him... If he becomes thier pal he will trust they won't get involved with you... So tell yoru two guy friends to IGNORE your H completely.. Your husband will then start to PANIC
You tell your H NOTHING because you aern't in contact with him at all... you ignore your h just like your two guy friends are...
Leave your husband squirm with panic for a while... let him squirm.. It FORCES him out of A and to choose B or C
He THINKS he can have A, keep you as a side party...
You befriending other men who don't want to talk thim is going to PRESS the point on him that A is NOT available to him anymore
This is why he won't recommit to you Antonia.. He's convinced you will be there as his backup plan... This will scare teh crap out of him.. Keep paling around with these guys... As long as THEY know you aren't interested in anything romantic with them that's fine... your HUSBAND does NOT need to know that
