If I had to do it all again I would have NEVER tried to be H friend. That was counterproductive to reconcilliation as I know WAY too much.
I would have cut him off emotionally and forced him to live his choices. He didn't need to get rid of OW as long as I was there to fill in the gaps.
I would have exposed OW to her family and at her workplace, there were calls and texts that she made to me while she was on the job. It could have put pressure on her.
Mostly I would have just cut him off emotionally, physically & financially...it might have cut things short.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
