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[TimeHeals]

This is not a one way street. It is easy to feel that YOU are the one doing all the work, even if it isn't true

You don't have to tell me. We picked out two very messy dogs that we raised together, and they created a lot more work. And I did become less disciplined, but that's only because before I was doing everything-literally, so a little resentment built up, and I started slacking.

Now I am here, same house, same dogs, minus STBXW, and place is cleaner than it ever was when she was here. My job got easier really.

I hate to say that, but it is true. Didn't stop the complaints prior to her leaving though.