Quote: Perhaps the strangest thing about being married is how lonely it is.
This is EXACTLY the way all HD spouses feel when married to someone with NO DESIRE. It is exactly the way I feel. Now, I hope that you do not have any children yet. If you don't, make sure you do not have children until this problem is cleared up. Children will only make the situation worse, since they are time consuming. Unfortunately for me, my children CAUSED my wife to become fridgid. I would leave her in a second if I did not have children, but unfortunately I love my children, so I am trying to hang in there until they leave home or my wife and I can figure something out. On the other hand, if you were to give birth, that might screw up your hormones like it did to my wife, and your desire would disappear as well. I have seen many HD people on here actually discussing drugs that will KILL their desire for sex so that they can be compatible with their passionless spouses. Boy, does that not show how desparate we can become.
Here might be some helpful advice, get him completely checked out, particularly for low levels of testosterone. From what I understand, men are more likely to have physical problems if they are low desire. It still is probably an emotional problem, but you could at least rule out the physical problems by getting him checked out.
