Being civil is always a good idea. That's one of the problems with the world ... no civility.
That's where I stand. I have no problem being civil with my STBXW (been a bit tough getting it returned).
I have no intention of being her friend because, well... let's face it, I'd have to be a bad friend... the kind that never calls unless they need something. Better to set her free and be civil and compassionate than to try to be her friend.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-