Lola you set a boundary way back when that if he did not break it off with other woman you would file as adultery.
Sort of...I didn't give him an ultimatum about breaking it off with OW...after d-day #1 and H begged for forgiveness- I told him that if he betrayed my trust again..I would file for D on the grounds of adultery.
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What is the purpose now?
I think the original purpose of this was to protect myself from further hurt. The purpose now...is to follow thru on my word. I think this is more for myself than anything else.
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What does Lola gain from fighting this battle?
I think I am saying- "you cannot bully me any longer". "my wants matter" "I will no longer be manipulated by you"
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Who IS Lola?
Still trying to figure that out
Regarding the other questions...I am thinking about it.
