Red, I might keep the photo thing up my sleeve for another time. Right now, WAH will be reminded a LOT about his baby. They spend more time with her than him! G, I think I might avoid the event. I couldn't handle overhearing conversations about WH's new life. I think it was great you went though, because as you say, you are getting along. In writing this post I am reminded WH and I are NOT getting along, sadly (but friggen understandably!). NM, feel free to vent any time on this thread! I cannot believe overnight visits are accepted as young as 6 months in your area. That seems insane to me, but maybe I don't know what I am taking about. When did you stop breastfeeding?