My husband is not feeling well, He says he is sick with the flu, but you know, I don't believe him. He hates his job so much that just going makes him very unhappy. No matter how many times I have told him that he should quit if this job makes him so miserable,that we will manage, he won't listen. He is looking for another one, but with the economy as it is, nothing has happenned, so he is even more miserable and now telling me he is sick.
I feel pretty bad that I don't believe him, but I just can't justify someone that won't go to work and won't go to the doctor no matter what I say. He has this pasive way of confronting life that makes me want to scream and well, today I did just that
I was so mean and even though I think I am not sorry for telling him what I think, I should have done it in a VERY different way.
I think because I am so frustrated with our sex problem, all other problems get me so angry so fast.
I am loosing hope on this, not because my husband won't change, but because am not doing what I need to do to help. I am reacting instead of thinking and not applying what I learned in the book. I cannot for the life of me just let go of the pain an anger.
