So much for my happy bubble. WH just called me wanting me to talk about a settlement and not involving the lawyers. I told him that I had an appt. with the Veterans Service Office for this area on Friday. He went from somewhat threatening to conjoling, trying to tell me one minute that I could not receive any of his Military Disability to saying that that was great, he gets hurt for his country and I get his money. I kept my voice even. Told him that I was exploring all my options and would talk to him when the time came. Kept saying we could make a deal. Finally said good-bye and hung up. I'm not the jittering mess I was the last time we talked, just hurt by his attitude.

I really don't know what to think. Is he trying to BS me or what? Offered me his college benefits if I'd settle now. I kept asking him what the great hurry was, and he would never answer.

Did my best to stay light. Kind of at a loss as to what the whole phone call was about. Any suggestions?