What do you make of this tidbit? I have two male friends, both married themselves, who have helped me with certain things around the house and one attended a legal consultation with me for support. My WAH knows this. At first he seemed very bothered that I was consulting MEN for help, but both are guys I work with and I'm very close to both of their wives so I see nothing wrong with it.

Anyway, one of the guys told me that my H emailed the other guy to tell him thanks for being helpful to me and that maybe they could get together for a beer and hang out because they now lived close to one another. He also said he intended to contact the other guy I'm friends with for the same. He made some comment about how "a lot of people are rallying around her but I thought maybe we could get together some time."

Well the guy he emailed was so floored by this that he has not responded to my husband at all. My husband is not friends with either of these guys; they are MY friends/coworkers. My husband has only hung out with them when all the couples have gotten together.

What do you make of this?


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying