AGAIN.. This full transparency is NOT a discussion or a debate...

It's an invitation... He accepts it and does it THEN and THERE with you.. OR you say OK and you walk away

If you have to walk away empty handed you have to play hard ball with him or you are in for a VERY rough ride for a LONG TIME

These are marital dealbreakers... SECRETS are MARITAL CANCER

If he wants to protect CANCER in his marriage you have some very hard thinking to do about this man