It won't matter what I do or say until she gives up the EA. She got caught in another lie about him Mon. She said the last time she talked to him was before school got out. I asked if she was sure. She said yes. So I got up and got her phone. I told her I had checked her phone the day after the last school board meeting, which was the day after I talked to the V.P. of the school board, because I expected her to call him. She didn't stay out drinking after the meeting and, sure enough, they talked for over an hour the next day. It was still on her phone and she said it was school board business. Whatever. I scrolled down some more and there were four other calls to or from him. She said she forgot about those, they were just about v-ball camp or some sh!t.

The L said that while she was in denial, it was no use trying to get through to her. Give her a choice; work on the M or I would be filing for full custody. I realize she makes her money by me filing and all, but it went hand in hand with a lot of things that are said right here. She sure does sound good, anyway.

I am still steeling myself for that final step.
"I won't live like this and our kids can't live like this. You give up the things that are costing us money we don't have and commit to rebuilding this M into something better than it was before or I will take the necessary steps to protect my kids and my ability to provide for them."

I know what to say. I need to keep the ball rolling. I can do it.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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