Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Interesting posts both CTH and wii.

CTH, I hear you and I'd love to see the stats...but my STBXW has no excuse! She did this before got hurt and came back...I thought for good. So why leave again after seeing the other side already?? It makes no sense to me. Also what exactly is MLC? could she be going through that? Again this is a slippery slope and I really need to back out of it. I don't want to go down this path...she gone, she's done...I just have to accept it and think about my life without her. It's what I HAVE TO do.

Wii, it's funny you mention that men have a tougher time because our families are our social life. We focus everything on them. This is sooooooooooooooooo true for me but I thought I was an anomoly- a hermit, an introvert...

So it's a little validating to hear I'm not a total weirdo

On the way back from lunch I stopped into Big 5 to see how much the next set of dumbells I need is. I'm wearing a black polo shirt with my company's logo on it and dress pants. As I was getting up from looking at a price tag a lady said 'Can I try these on' - she noticed the puzzled look on my face, then the logo on my shirt and said 'oh...sorry, do you work here?' - I smiled and said 'no...but you have my permission to try them all on, let me know how they fit' - she laughed and said 'well thanks I felt kinda silly'. I told her it happens to me all the time- actually it doesn't. Funny...

OK back to work...