Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

DanF,

I love my W but the fact to the matter is she is cheating on me and I know that mentally I can't handle seeing her on a daily basis. I think the separation will do us both good and if our paths cross great, if not then I know that I've done everything I could to save my marriage.

I've given the separation a lot of thought and I've come to realize that I can't control my W. I can't make her see that OM is merely a distraction for her. Not too mention a huge risk because OM is her boss. I know my W and I know she will have a hard time living alone but it's something we need to do.

If OM is her soulmate then so be it. I'll have to live with that but at least I can start healing and move forward without her. I know for know that living together isn't an option while this is happening right under my nose.

This has made me so much stronger as a person and down the road I know that if I'm lucky enough to have another R I'll do the right thing. I won't make the same mistakes i've made with my W. I know that the R I have with my son will be stronger and i thank my W for opening my eyes to this.