Can't stay and post long ... just wanted to tell you that "NOW in MLC" referred to my switch from the newcomers forum to the MLC forum ... my H has been in MLC all along
GAL .... and honestly, I did a terrible job of detachment for a LONG time, or at least it felt like a long time! I had to actually separate and go dim to accomplish any level of detachment. If you have some time on your hands (ok, quite a bit of time, we all know I'm long winded!) have a read through my sitch ... you might get some ideas ...
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
