I've been following your thread and wanted to say I am rooting for you! I add you to my prayers every night.
You have so much patience. There really isn't much DB'ing I can do on my sitch since drugs are involved but I like to read up on other people's sitches and truly think you will prevail in the end.
Good luck!
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)