Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

I want THIS from my marriage - I am willing to stay married if this is available

a. Monogamous commitment
b. Honest internet activity
c. Respect to me when you are talking about me with your friends and family

But she doesn't WANT the marriage. She is just going to FC so we can get along and get through the divorce. She could care less what I WANT.

Am I really in a position to make any demands on the marriage like that?

That's what I am asking. How do you do FC when your spouse is only there to make the situation during the divorce livable?