PEI..at the end of your signature, it says Now in MLC. What makes you think that? I don't know your story..i'm still trying to figure out this forum thing and how to follow my own threads.

I am just floored by how prevalent this MLC thing is..I mean I have heard of it of course..but never expected to go thru it. And some of the behaviors of the MLCers are just so over the top. I just don't understand why they can't see what they are doing and get some help. It's almost like temporary insanity. My husband is a sensitive, caring and very intelligent man. How is it that he can't stop it? I know he doesn't love that OW.

What kinds of things did you do to detach?