ShellDoll,

I am new here so please forgive me if I am not doing this right. I originally posted a couple of days ago. I don't know how to put a link to it in this post but it was entitled "My story". It was a very lengthy post...a bit of a novel actually but it will put the whole story into perspective

I believe he has been gambling after work. He works from 5-2am and is coming home at 6-7am. I can understand this once in a while but it has now become the new standard.

We have a 2yr D and he takes care of her during the day and with him coming home so late he is getting no sleep and I fear is becoming unfit as a father.

He wants me to leave him alone meaning don't call him, don't talk to him and just let him do what he wants. We have gone from a very loving caring relationship to nothing. I haven't had sex with him since May 30th and when we did it was terrible and he insisted we use a condom. It is all very out of character and I think he must be having an affair on top of the gambling....or maybe it is the end result of the gambling life


M=42
H=51
Common-law 6yr
Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son
Bomb dropped January 2013