She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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My D and I were talking and she told me my w was texting someone named xxxx, and last night my W said she was talking to her female cousin but it was a male voice on the other end.

I asked my W about it, she explained what it was, may or may not be true. To be honest I don't care at this point. She acuused me of accusing her, and got angry at me because she knew i wouldn't be able to accept that this was actually about her and I only and not someone else.

After a some text messages back and forth, she called and said she was going home to tear into my D for trying to cause problems. I was in a doctors appointment, and walked out to run home and head her off.

I got there before her and tried to stop her from going in and tearing into my D. She went in and did it anyway. After awhile she started telling my D everything that was going on between us. she told her about the court date and that we were getting D for sure. Up until now, my D thought we were working on things.

As the conversation went on all my W was doing was saying bad things about me to my D, and trying to hurt me. Most of it backfired in her face, and even my D called her out on stuff. Unfortunately, the stuff my W said is actually what she believes to be reality.

At the end of it all we agreed that the door was closed on us. She had been mean and hurtful for the last time to me. I told her the only interaction we would have is to discuss issues with our daughters. No more doing things together or trying to act like a family.

Even my D told her to to get over the past. My W told my D that one of the reasons we're divorcing is because we can't see eye to eye. I told my D that no one in a relationship see's everything eye to eye. You do sometimes, but you work through what you can't

My W is very much detached from reality, and is the reason we will never be able to move forward together. All we can do at this point is move on separately. At this point it will be a miracle if we ever get back together. i told her that she didn't deserve me. I know I'm a good husband and father and don't deserve this treatment.