Doc, I think the advice you got on your thread is true--strong, positive, leadership is the mindset you and I must have. This means we Act As If in spite of feelings of ambivalence, mistrust, and anger. In my case I need to learn to have my W experience the "whip of reality" if she crosses any major boundaries. Until that happens, keep my mind and actions focused on building a stronger M and tame the fear, doubt, and anger.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
