Your marriage is a very, very young marriage. Less than one year. That will help you in the D proceedings. You both are employed, you both have your own health insurance and you have no children so spousal maintenance/insurance/child support won't even come to play. The house will be the only issue.
Your W can act however she wants when it comes to the D but NY has very specific parameters on how things need to be done and there is no deviation from the process. If she wants to act childish or angry during the D proceedings let her attny deal with it. As for the actual process it won't have any bearing on you.
