Hey ltaylor, I found this in another thread and thought it might help you.
"I began working with a pro-marriage counselor soon after D-day. He's called everything that WW will do and say EXACTLY since this started. And told he me back in Jan (when I was asking why we weren't making any progress when OM dumped her in early Dec)that we would never begin to make any progress unitl WW thinks the affair is over in HER mind. He then said it would be 3-4 weeks of severe withdrawal, (if she's like most people) but that severe WD could last as much as 2 months, and after that time I would begin to see progress. After that it would be another 3-5 months of her completing the de-fogging process."
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
