Hey ltaylor -

I've been working one-on-one with Larry Biolotta at StopYourDivorcein4Weeks.com, so you wouldn't find his list on a forum. Also, since I paid for the advice, I don't think it would be fair to Larry to give all the details here.

But here are a few things you might try:

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/43-date-night-ideas

http://www.passionatehomemaking.com/2010...-the-cheap.html

http://www.menshealth.com/men/sex-relati...bbd2010cfe793cd

The big thing is to put the kids and bills out of your mind and play like YOU'RE the new OW in his life. Lots of sweet, much less sour.

Good luck!