Then call teh FT's office to confirm if his appointment is still active...
How much notice does he have to give them?
There ARE ways around him as you can see...
And you CAN't PRESSURE him to go or he will just QUIT GOING
You have to make the trip FUN
Why not plan a nice dinner for him on eht days that he geos or something.. give him a REASON to go?
If you REALLY HAVE to bring this up to him you can sneak the info in...
Start making plans around that day... before and after the appointment, things he would WANT to do and would ENJOY doing.. with kids and without.. you tell him you want to know if he's ok with the plans for that day after his appointment or if he just wants to be ALONE after it...
THAT is a not so delicate way of going to him to confirm his appointment...
But he CAN cancel AFTER you ask.. so what's the point?
