See, by you saying your W only knows her own way of doing things you are still fearful of her reaction.
I do not feel that way. I am not concerned how my W handles me now agreeing with her on divorce being the answer for the very reasons you stated. I am concerned about her being childish enough to make the divorce process more difficult than it has to be. I know I can't control that but I can maintain civility.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10