We have already filed and have been meeting with the attys on income, CS and maintenance payments. Our first hearing for a temoporary order is next tuesday. I'll let you know how that goes for me. In my state, WI, it is a no fault divorce. Doesn't matter if someone had an affair or anything else. All you do is go in and say you have irreconcilable differences. Split everything 50/50. That simple, until it comes to the placement of the kids and future payments.