Doc, I've been following your posts for over a year.
My advice is don't worry about it. I don't think W moving back into your room is to string you along.
Where I fell apart in my reconciling is that my constant expecting the worse tainted my attitude towards my H. Those tainted emotions are difficult to hide and are easily perceived by the spouse. At this point "acting as if" everything is going great (even though you have concerns) will be the best thing for you to do to move forward in you M (if that is what you want). People follow strong leaders, especially if they are positive. Are you REALLY ready to move on (as you stated in the above post)? If so, then maybe you should seriously think about whether or not you want your W to move back into your room.
