Yes there is..it is why you take your time..it is why you learn or as Cat put it "train".. you train yourself to be whole and healthy and at that point YOU can decide.
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My brother tells me there is no expiration date, so to take my time.
He is right...take your time. Do you like wine? Fine wine? How long does it need to age? How long does that wonderful grape juice sit all alone in a wooden crate? It depends - right? What is the old saying...the longer it ages the better it is. Think of this time as just that.
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Cause I don't know what to do.
None of us did...none of us. You know what though that time does come when you will know what to do. It comes but you need TIME. As for what other say...F em. Isn't this YOUR life? If it is then you decide. You don't need me or anyone else for that matter to tell you want to do.
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I'm afraid
I know...I've been there. I wish I could tell you it goes away tomorrow. It does not. What it is..is the loss of control. Right now you see it as a hinderance to you...in the future you will see that the fear will propel to begin the changes taht you need. Like giving up control. It ani't easy. Know what though...I think you can do it!
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And maybe that is what he needs to learn all by himself..
Bingo~!
Keep your head up/
Take this time that you have right now to reflect and heal. No need to do anything rash...your emotions are gonna mess with you..they are. Know what...you can control these!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
