Originally Posted By: Allen A
Let me put this as clear as I can :

As long as he is CHEATING.. you do NOT
1. Do his laundry
2. Run his errands
3. Reply to his messages
4. Offer him your ear when he "wants to talk"
5. Make him dinner
6. Buy him gifts
7. Accept gifts from him

You SHUT him DOWN...

If his marriage proposal was something like this :


I want you to run my errands, do my laundry, and keep me company on the phone while I cheat on you... Will you marry me?


You would probably have said "HELL NO"

SO WHY are you doing it NOW?

Get back in dating mindset here... If he's cheating on you, your DIGNITY deserves a NO coming from you... if he wants ANYTHING the answer is NO

and if he calls back you change your cell number or turn off the phone.. block his number

Tell him if he wants to come to the house for ANYTHING he has to go through his MOTHER and SHE will make arrangements with you...

You do NOT NEED to deal with him DIRECTLY...





"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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