I know God has a plan and that since He loves me, it will all be good.
Do not confuse love with ease or comfort.
My Dad loved and loves me, and I am a decent man I like to think, he didn't feed me candy and fill my room full of balloons and fluffy animals and give everything I wanted growing up. He was hard, but fair.
I hope to impart the same lessons in my sons.
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I wish he would see that throwing our marriage and me away is not going to do anything but destroy lives.
Actually not really lives...a marriage...yes...but not lives a lifestyle...yeah.
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My brother tells me there is no expiration date, so to take my time
Your brother is AWESOME! As for the others...thank them for their concern but let them know you are going to stop talking with them if they keep pressuring you into making a choice according to their time table.
You be SMART for YOU. Surround yourself with people that will HELP, not hinder your choices.
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your future hangs in limbo
Oh...your future is coming...its not like time unravelled. It just ight not be the one you planned...and to THAT affect it does nothing for you to worry about somehting that you have no control over. Hey the world is supposed to end in Dec 2012 because the Mayans ran out of rock to carve on...you worried about that too? ; )
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Sometimes it's like he's mental.
The MLC choice is yours to make, if you do...it certainly explains alot. ALOT.
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How can someone make healthy decisions when they're like that?
Can one? I'd say by accident rather than by design.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
