1. If she is in MC that MC should be making arrangements with yoru wife to SHARE ALL CONTACT info... cell phone logs, text message histories, email accounts, etc... credit card history... ALL her INFO is on the TABLE... This is known as FULL TRANSPARENCY... This is part of the return to the marriage agreement. if your wife is NOT offering full transparency to you and the MC then she's still cheating... Sorry, but those who have nothing to hide will hide nothing.
2. Why is exposure so limited? How can you expect people to help support her return to the marriage if no one is watching OUT for her to HELP her walk teh straight and narrow?
3. When will those feelings end? With full transparency AND a 100% complete effort from HER to REMVOE all possible means of contact... she changs her cell number, her email address etc... And all accounts old and new are open to YOU and the MC for review at ANY TIME without her consult... all her life is under surveillance for at LEAST three months...
If your MC isn't insisting on the full transparency then YOU need to educate the MC on the subject.. its infidelity repair 101... I am a bit worried about this MC
Do they have EXPERIENCE dealing with affairs? Have you done your research on the MC?
SOrry but there are a lot of psychologists that pass themselves off as marriage therapists who don't know squat about resolving marital problems...
After three months of full transparency, MC visits, and fresh communciation info .. assuming she's REMOVED ALL images of the OM from her home... all gifts, all email, etc.. ERASES him from her home.. three months should do the trick...
But my guess is she has gifts of his lying around still.. email from him in her inbox she's reading in secret etc...
This is an ADDICTTION dude, you can't jsut expect her to "stop drinking"... She needs SUPPORT and SURVEILLANCE... She's an addict, you can't expect her to just turn the addiction off with reminders of him all over her home and her PC
