A thought just occurred to me. I'm not sure if it's a correct thought - but a thought, nonetheless. I think H is happy I'm going back to school and GAL and all that so he doesn't feel guilty about bailing on our M and our kids. You know, if I'M ok, then HE can be OK!

I can't get past the fact that he was discussing my choice of a 4 year major with FT and why it's good/not good in terms of a primary or secondary income!

SO: I want to be OK, of course! But I don't want to let him off the hook! He SHOULD feel guilty about what he's doing/wanting to do to our family!