MLC likely...BPD possible...divorce pending

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Making it quickly over was in reference to this:

I started up a relationship with someone right after my H and I decided to D. I am in the slow process of trying to end it. I feel terrible for getting myself involved...I know I am going to hurt this guy. It was a big mistake- people on here tried to warn me..but I didn't listen. It was a very nice distraction from all of this. I realize that I just craved that attention from someone else..the need to feel wanted after feeling so rejected. I didn't realize how much I needed to be alone until I took a vacation a couple of weeks back. It really gave me a chance to think about my life, what I need, and what I want. All of this doesn't involve being with another man.

Not your marriage.

: )

If you want to be married...

uhhhh


Slow down or stop the divorce. Stop talking about it, stop telling him to bring you the papers.

You are asking questions about the difference between the MLC and the WAH.

There are commonalities. In so much that your husband has left.

As a WAH once, I was very clear. I was NOT crazy...any more so than normal, I knew what I wanted and I didn't give her any hope or say nice things to be confused later. That may sound mean...maybe it was. I didn't want her holding onto hope for years...I did not hate her.

Agreed about the text, no question...so a simple ok if you are 'ok' with it.