The answer is yes and no. You need her to pursue you. So you may approach it in a manner that shows you love and value her, but if she does not want to be with you than maybe a D is the way to go.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08