Scwred up and need advice

[CPCajun]

I am not saying I initiate every conversation but, She seems open and wants to converse if I start. She is not as tense and seems to open up. Granted it is small talk and sometimes groes into R. I still do not bring it up, but if she does, I do talk about it in sinple answers.
When she does talk about things, usually in the future tense it is 'we' or somehow she includes me as part of the future. Even if its the small stuff, once she opens, sometimes she will ask me to come sit with her or watch TV or a movie.