Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[mza8]

Hey Gr8,

Checking in. I'm glad you enjoyed the steamed crabs and enjoyed Fells Point. I was there (FP) earlier on Saturday morning. It's a fun place to visit.

I read your last few posts. I think it's good that you are GAL. Your W seems to be keeping tabs on you as indicated by your mutual friend. It's interesting that your W gets into arguments with her friend when they go out. Perhaps your W is finding that she doesn't enjoy that new lifestyle as much as she thought. It's also sad to me that your W's friend acts like it's a competition for guys when they go out. That's a pretty shallow way to live if you ask me.

I always find it interesting when mutual friends "ask" you questions about what it would take to get back together. I think there's a good chance they ask those questions because those same questions get discussed with the WAS. I think it's a way for them to find out what you're thinking.

Keep doing what you're doing. Your W said she doesn't think your changes will last. Making the changes for you means the changes will last. Perhpas one day your W will see that what she wants from a man in her life is now right in front of her...you with your new self.