Ok, I don't think this is a good positively stated goal. Needs work.
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Continue to give H space and no contact initiated by me but would like to see him initiate one contact a week, would feel that the giving him space is being noticed and he feels safe enough in my control to not go off on him if he initiates a contact. Is this a doable baby step or still too big of a goal? Any thoughts on this one?
New Goals:
1: Give my H enough space that hopefully he will choose to contact me.
2: Continue to do my daily meditations in order to remain in a positive mindset.
3: Do more with friends, visiting or doing fun projects.
4: Get back into my hobbies and some fun activities.
5: Continue reading DR and working on threads Sage started as well as the book from C on cognitive thinking.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
