Your answer...."Yes, I know that it would be a long time if you could ever trust me again and I don't blame you.. However, I really don't want to be in a relationship wondering if you are ever going to trust me again and I certainly don't want to be in one like what we have had since I started to try and show you how much you mean to me. I also want someone who WANTS and chooses to be with me."
I agree with this gist of your message, Gucci. I just think we need to be careful with OIN because he is too focused on verbalization and not focused enough on actions.
Sure, he's saying he understands it isn't going to work like it is, and he's agreeing with her on divorce, but he's responding to every text, making special trips to hear what she has to say, and in short... still hanging on her every response.
His words are saying one thing, but how convincing is it when his actions are something else because he basically doesn't believe in what he's doing?
GREAT point, TH. I agree!
Gooch, how to adjust w/ same strategy, but different tactics that are more ACTION-oriented??
