robx I do see your point. I'm not saying I'm truly convinced that there isn't someone else either emotionally or physically. I have no proof or anything that would lead me to believe it's happening.

I have questioned and asked her about this. That's all I can do at this point. I'm not sure it really matters at this point, other than it would give me some clarity.

I think it will be much easier to detach once she moves and we're not spending so much time together. She won't feel the sting until she really lives without me.

She thinks it will be like when I was deployed. However, it wont be because she will not be living in her house or have access to my paycheck. All things she still had when i was deployed.

Reality will soon smack her right in the face. I have already begun to move on, and know for a fact that there are others that appreciate me and would want to be with me.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept