He's Loving the Freedom of the 180 - Now What?

[newmama]

And I bet Larry will say something similar like MWD:
"Patience, my dear Red, patience."

I realize you want him to come to you NOW but dang....he has changed significantly in 3 months right? And think of the timespan of the A....is it 2-3 years??? So in my mind, I figure it would take 1)affair winding down 2)lots of break up/make up/ break up 3)your H going through withdrawal/depression 4)your H sees the light!/wakes up/comes out of the fog/comes to his senses