Good to hear H4U! And I completely understand the mixed feelings about sticking around or not. For me, I've found it kind of theraputic during the challenging times helping others out and even talking to (x)W OPENLY about everything she was thinking/feeling to get a better grasp than I had before.

Hey PUP, what am I? Chopped liver? LOL, geesh, even went all the way through the complete hell of a divorce and turned it all around. Granted, a lot of my approaches can be deemed as 'unorthodox' to the DB method, but in the end.......

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11