Still trying to find my way

[newmama]

Mystik, I do think your H is telling a twisted version of what happened to his family. I'm not sure what you can do about it. Or IF you SHOULD do anything about it. But when do you go back to your IC? Maybe she could give some input?

I understand your point about contesting his filing, I do!
In my state, I have no choice but to agree with "irreconcilable differences" because that is the only grounds for divorce.

But what kind of contesting to you want to do? I mean Lolawar just wants it to be stated that her H committed adultery. I wonder if you could write that in somewhere?

Something else to consider...it is easier on the kids when the parents do not have a nasty legal battle.