I think exposure backfired?

[AntoniaB]

Ok I have stated very clearly that I cannot be his friend if he pursues the affair.

His response to this was that he was purposely staying out of contact with me because he felt it was the best thing for me. He also said that some days he felt terrific and other days he felt lost but that at least his decisions and their consequences were is own.

So clearly he is pursuing B and I can't affect that. Maybe in time he'll grow to miss what we had enough to go to C, but I feel very doubtful about that.